So........ Loaded title eh?
I know I haven't posted in a while, but things have been a tad insane lately. I've had someone sleeping around and lying and a lot of drama about it. But this isn't about the drama, or the sex, or the lies. This is about how throughout all this anger, drama, and stress I found a way to be at peace with my life.
Sometimes I get on here and my blogs become a vent session for me, bu that isn't why I made this blog. It isn't to vent and let out all my drama and crap. It's so people can see my life, see that I'm like anyone else out there. I have stress and drama, but I also want to inspire others to see that there is so much more to live for. There are ways to be at peace when life is anything but peaceful.
THE SEX AND DRAMA AND LIES
So I have a roommate who had a lot of boyfriend issues, and the fact is waaaaay to shortly she slapt with a friend of mine who was still a virgin. And the next night she did it again, then shortly she slept with a very very sexually confused close friend of mine. And when Amber and I confronted her she showed no remorse or pity or actually any emotion at all. It was very scary, but what else can we do? And it hurt so many people, it really was not ok. Then she tried to lie about it and keep it from Amber.
THE PEACE
So through all the drama during this last week here's the hovering question, "How do I cope and find a place of peace?"
Well readers why don't you sit right down and let Bridget tell you some her ways to keep some peace in life through things that are anything but peaceful.
First thing I always do is share the drama with someone who is really good at listening. And sometimes when there is no one to tell, I pray. Now if you aren't religious another helpful one is to write, sing, or blog about it. Or even say it aloud to yourself .There are so many outlets for getting that stress out into the world so you don't feel quite as alone.
GET IT OUT OF YOU AND INTO THE WORLD
*Tell a listener (Parent, Friend, Self)
*Pray if you want to.
*Blog, Write, or Sing about it
The Second thing I find that brings an amazing amount of peace to my life is music. Find things that put your mind at ease. I love the song All We Are by Matt Nathanson personally. Also Big Black Car, Master & a Hound, and Idaho by Gregory Alan Isakov. Those songs bring me peace and help me not to worry about things when I need to just forget. I also use things like movies, games, and especially books to escape from my worries for a short time.
ESCAPE AND FORGET
*Hard Work
*Cleaning
*Music**********
*Books, Games, Movies.
Finally the last thing I find that really helps is that by this time I have a ton of pent up emotion I need to let out. I scream cry and explode to myself or someone who understands. I loose it and let it all out. That way, when I go to deal with it finally, I am calm and rational and I can solve it. That is how I keep from loosing peace in my life for weeks of stress and fear and drama.
I cry.
EXPLODE
*Cry, Scream, and/or Rage. Release
*Deal with it.
Keep the peace readers. Keep God and peace and Love. Or not God if you choose. But be happy. You have a world to live for. So go live.
Dream Big,
~ B. Marie
I know I haven't posted in a while, but things have been a tad insane lately. I've had someone sleeping around and lying and a lot of drama about it. But this isn't about the drama, or the sex, or the lies. This is about how throughout all this anger, drama, and stress I found a way to be at peace with my life.
Sometimes I get on here and my blogs become a vent session for me, bu that isn't why I made this blog. It isn't to vent and let out all my drama and crap. It's so people can see my life, see that I'm like anyone else out there. I have stress and drama, but I also want to inspire others to see that there is so much more to live for. There are ways to be at peace when life is anything but peaceful.
THE SEX AND DRAMA AND LIES
So I have a roommate who had a lot of boyfriend issues, and the fact is waaaaay to shortly she slapt with a friend of mine who was still a virgin. And the next night she did it again, then shortly she slept with a very very sexually confused close friend of mine. And when Amber and I confronted her she showed no remorse or pity or actually any emotion at all. It was very scary, but what else can we do? And it hurt so many people, it really was not ok. Then she tried to lie about it and keep it from Amber.
THE PEACE
So through all the drama during this last week here's the hovering question, "How do I cope and find a place of peace?"
Well readers why don't you sit right down and let Bridget tell you some her ways to keep some peace in life through things that are anything but peaceful.
First thing I always do is share the drama with someone who is really good at listening. And sometimes when there is no one to tell, I pray. Now if you aren't religious another helpful one is to write, sing, or blog about it. Or even say it aloud to yourself .There are so many outlets for getting that stress out into the world so you don't feel quite as alone.
GET IT OUT OF YOU AND INTO THE WORLD
*Tell a listener (Parent, Friend, Self)
*Pray if you want to.
*Blog, Write, or Sing about it
The Second thing I find that brings an amazing amount of peace to my life is music. Find things that put your mind at ease. I love the song All We Are by Matt Nathanson personally. Also Big Black Car, Master & a Hound, and Idaho by Gregory Alan Isakov. Those songs bring me peace and help me not to worry about things when I need to just forget. I also use things like movies, games, and especially books to escape from my worries for a short time.
ESCAPE AND FORGET
*Hard Work
*Cleaning
*Music**********
*Books, Games, Movies.
Finally the last thing I find that really helps is that by this time I have a ton of pent up emotion I need to let out. I scream cry and explode to myself or someone who understands. I loose it and let it all out. That way, when I go to deal with it finally, I am calm and rational and I can solve it. That is how I keep from loosing peace in my life for weeks of stress and fear and drama.
I cry.
EXPLODE
*Cry, Scream, and/or Rage. Release
*Deal with it.
Keep the peace readers. Keep God and peace and Love. Or not God if you choose. But be happy. You have a world to live for. So go live.
Dream Big,
~ B. Marie